Comparison!! There is none....

Stop comparing yourself to the media measuring stick...

I am reading this self help book by Kristine Carlson called Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women.. and this is one of the lessons in the book. I am super guilty of this. Of not realizing that I am me and only I can be ME. I am always trying to be like someone else because I think they are better than me. It kinda goes back to that whole noone can cut me down like I can myself. I work hard, I love with all I have, I trust when I shouldnt, and I tend to allow people to hurt me. Why because that is who I am. I give second, third, fourth and fifth chances.... because I love with all that I have in me and I want people to feel that. I cant make them, it is their choice. I am learning that life is all about choices. Good Ones, bad ones, crazy ones. Things wont always work out the way that you think they should. But they work out. You live and you learn. I am learning that my photography may not be the best in the world, but it is surely not the worst and as long as I am learning my skill and making it better, who cares. I know that I am doing the best I can and that is all that matters. So I am going to stop comparing myself to anyone but myself. Because I have come a LONG way in the past year. I need to realize that as a person. I havent been the best wife, mother, or friend that I could have been...is it because I didnt try...NO... Its because I spent too much time trying to be the perfect presentation of all of these. Well guess what Donna Michelle IS NOT PERFECT... Let me repeat that for the whole world to read....I AM NOT PERFECT. I am not the perfect Mother...who is.... I am learning to be a mother with a learning curve...most people get to have their children as babies and learn what they are like and help them mature as they grow... I didnt get this option, the children that our life has been blessed with are much older... 15, and 10. They are very unique and different in their own ways...and have settled into the sibling rivalry quite well. I am giving it my all to be what they need me to be while still trying to figure out exactly what that is.... As far as a wife....well... I dont even know where to begin on that one. I am doing the best that I can and know how. I love my husband more than life. We have discovered that we have 2 very different parenting styles, which again I think would have been easier to deal with and compromise had our children been born to us, so we are adjusting and learning about each other along the way... As long as we are trying and doing the best that we can...that is all that we can do. Well that and take parenting classes....Thank you HAL RUNKEL for the Scream Free Parenting!!!! With friendship, I have been far from perfect and will be the first to admit that I have not given that my all as I should have. I have been so caught up in being a mother and a wife that I have been neglectful of my friends. Its very difficult for me to keep it all together and that was the one that seems to have lacked the most. I feel like my friends are these perfect wives and mothers and they have it all together and I some how cant keep up, which makes me feel embarrassed. So as you can see I am guilty of comparing myself in every aspect of my life. I have to stop...I am not sure exactly how to do that...but I am working on it. Because I am ME and I am a good person and NOONE is better at being me than ME. God chose ME for this particular life...if he had wanted someone else in it...HE WOULD HAVE CHOSEN THEM!!! He didnt so why am I trying to... I am headed to bed..these were just some thoughts rambling in my head.... Good night~

40 Random Answers ABOUT ME~~~


1. Where are you from? Enterprise, AL
2. How long have you been married? Almost 6 years
3. How many children do you have? 2-a girl and boy
4. When’s your birthday? May 28
5. Where did you get married? Panama City, Fl
6. What’s your favorite color? Blue and Purple
7. What’s your favorite food? Chinese
8. Do you cook? What’s your favorite dish to cook? I'm trying to enjoy cooking, but haven't discovered a favorite dish I like to make
9. Do you have a pet? If so, what? We have more of a zoo…Dogs, Cat, Snakes, Fish
10. What type of movies do you like? Comedy, Romance
11. Do you have a favorite movie? Fried Green Tomatoes
12. Which is your favorite restaurant? Zaxby’s
13. What type of music do you like? Country
14. What’s your favorite artist or band? Rascal Flatts, Train, Darius Rucker
15. Do you like reading? What type of books? Romance, Inspirational
16. What are your hobbies? Photography, Scrapbooking, Writing
17. Do you play any sports? No, I sure do love to watch my kids play
18. How many languages do you speak? Which ones? One…ENGLISH!
19. Are you a nature person? Do you like ‘outdoorsy’ stuff? Love being outside, geocaching
20. What’s your favorite place that you have visited? St. Augustine, FL
21. Where do you work? Home based worker for marketing company, photography and take care of my family.
22. Did you go to school, or were you home schooled? Went to school
23. Did you go to college? What was your major? Yes – Accounting
24. Where are you parents from? Florida
25. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Yes, both
26. Have you ever been outside your state? How about outside of the USA? I’ve been to other states in the US, but never outside the US
27. Where would u go on vacation if money wasn't an issue? Ireland and Disney
28. If you could travel anywhere, where would it be? Ireland
29. List the top 5 places you’d like to travel to? California, Ireland, Washington, London, Italy
30. What are you passionate about? Morals, family, marriage, beliefs, memories
31. List the top 5 things you’d like to accomplish before you die. Be an amazing wife, be a good mother, Be on CREATIVE LIVE, Have a successful photography business
32. What is one thing on your bucket list? To meet and shoot with Sue Bryce
33. Who is the most important person in the world to you? My husband.
34. What’s your dream job and why? Being able to make an income from home so I can take care of my family
35. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Do you have a plan? Owning our own home, having a new car, having our house remodeled and money in savings
36. If you were marooned on a desert island, what 3 things would you take? Laptop, Power cord and family picture
37. Describe yourself using 5 words. Organized, Loving, Creative, Supportive, Caring
38. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done? Ridden part of the way to St. Augustine, Fl on the back of my husbands motorcycle.
39. What’s the funniest thing you’ve done? Licked the ice cream bowl at Thanksgiving dinner at hubby’s parents house…
40. What are 3 things you’ve never done, but you would like to try? Skydive, Cruise and learn to swim.